Different stages in life...
When I was 18 years old, I hope people would think I'm pretty. That is the age where teenage girls love compliments like that. It feels like a bud had blossomed into a flower. I was very concern about my looks, and I can starve just to lose weight.
When I was 25, I wanted to be seen as intelligent. If someone were to say I'm stupid sincerely, I would have been very hurt. I try to look and sound intelligent as much as I could. I was very afraid of doing or saying something that makes me look stupid.
Now, nearing my 30s, I think the best compliment I can ever get is that I'm kind. Being kind would not mean a thing to me when I was 18 or 25. I probably would say things like "how much is kindness worth" or "kindness will not pay off". Something along that line.
善良means alot to me now. It takes alot of wisdom to be someone truly kind. It takes alot more for someone to say someone is kind. Not the sarcastic “他长的很善良“ type. But appreciative type.
My thinking changed so much within 10 years. I find it so amazing to experience these different stages in life already. Looking forward to the rest of my life, and I really want to pen down my different 感想 and 体验.
Like the saying goes, life is a box of chocolates, you never know what you are going to get. I hope the people who still bothers to read my blog can live a colorful life too!!
珍惜当下。现在不开心的，委屈的，挫败的，记得“以后的你“ 想起现在这的你，会会心一笑说自己以前好傻。
