What is your answer?

The ugly truth is, looks does matter to a certain extent. So don't tell me you are ok with all 3. Or even if you are ok with these 3, there musst be something you are not ok with.

Anyway, very interestingly, 3 of us got the same answer! We chose the SHORT guy.

Then I wonder, what constitute to the answer to this question? Maybe it's because I cannot accept myself being fat and have bad complexion, that's why I cannot tolerate such characteristics in my partner too? I mean, if you cannot accept yourself for something, most probably you cannot accept the same thing in someone so important to you, right?

However, the above 3 characteristics are just some examples, and we are very sure some people have other more stringent criteria. Joanne and Ah Yan are observant enough to point out my "死穴": Eyes cannot be "pa jiao" or positioned too far apart from each other. Funny right? This is what I look for subconsciously and stop studying Vincent's eyes, he's perfectly fine.

So the ugly truth is, despite the idea theory that love is blind, we are not that blind simply because we are human annd not... GOD?

Its always easy to have a checklist on what you are looking for, but what you really want to have is most of the time out of that checklist.....

Let's not talk about relationship, let's talk about job interviews. Before granting someone a job interview, the applicant must have met the basic requirement. Once that basic requirement is met, everyone granted an interview should, by right, have an equal chance of getting the job.

Interviewers try to be objective by having a checklist to access the applicants. So everyone that came into the room they religiously ticked the boxes on their checklist.

However, as an interviewer, you know deep down inside that when you found the correct person, there will no longer be a need to tick those boxes. That is when you go "this is the right person. shall we call him up tomorrow?", instead of computing the pile of checklist to see who scored the highest. Right? So job seekers, I hope this helps!

*Joanne, please correct me if I'm wrong. Hahaha....*

So what I'm trying to say is, by Joanne asking the question about the 3 guys, we have sort of established our basic requirement. The rest is up to.... erm... fate?

Just to recap, my basic requirement is.... well.. eyes cannot be pa jiao or too far apart! Wahahahaha! What about you??